How To Save Your Marriage

(Even If Your Spouse Is Checked Out)

Are you trying to save your marriage but you’re the only one making any effort? Are you wondering if it’s possible to get your partner to fall back in love with you?

The good news is that one committed partner can make a huge difference in a relationship. But, you’ve got to do it right. Most people trying to save their marriage make mistakes that end up pushing their loved one farther away from them rather than winning them back.

Here are links to powerful articles and videos from Dr. Dana Fillmore, Author, TV Marriage Expert and Clinical Psychologist, to help you win back your spouse’s affection and have a happy marriage again.

Marriage Saving Videos

How To Save Your Marriage On Your Own. It Is Possible!

Even if one partner wants a divorce or separation, it is still possible to recover what has been lost. You can save your marriage even if you are the only one willing to work on it. It may be easier than you think.

How To Reconnect And Feel Close Again

One day you may wake up to discover that you and your spouse have become roommates instead of loving partners. Even if your spouse has one foot out the door, it is still possible to get them to recommit to your marriage.

How To Regain Trust Once It’s Been Destroyed

How do regain trust when it has been destroyed? Don’t you have to have trust as the foundations to your marriage?

How To Improve The Communication In Your Relationship

Communication is one of the most common issues in a marriage and Dr. Dana has a powerful and surprisingly simple tip to make everything easier between you and your spouse.

How To Get Over Years of Disappointment

Even if your spouse has let you down consistently for a long period of time, it is still possible to work on your marriage.

Midlife Crisis Threatening Your Marriage?

How can you save your marriage when your partner is in the throes of midlife crisis and wants to throw everything away?

7 Steps To Survive An Affair

If you’ve been impacted by an infidelity, you’re marriage doesn’t have to be over. Discover 7 steps to save your marriage after an affair.

How to Stop the Divorce

Do you feel that your marriage is on a destructive track, heading towards divorce? There is hope, and you can get your marriage back on track.

For more advice on how to strengthen your marriage, check out the Strong Marriage Now System link below!

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Stop Divorce and Separation

Are you trying to stop your divorce or separation and save your marriage? Does your spouse want out and you’re not sure what to do? Are you afraid your marriage is over? It is possible to stop the divorce and save your marriage even if your spouse isn’t willing to try but you must handle […]

No Matter How Long You’ve Been Married, Sex Matters!

Physical intimacy is a critical part of a romantic relationship. The fact is, biology plays a huge role in our love lives. Sex (and other forms of intimacy) is the difference between friends and lovers, and when our bodies feel connected, so do our hearts and minds! There’s a misconception that sex becomes less important […]

Will Divorce Really Harm Your Kids?

Divorce can wreak havoc on many parts of life. It’s expensive and time consuming, can drag up painful memories, cause bitter confrontation, bring about financial ruin, damage friendships, and of course, lead to chaos and confusion in the lives of the children whose parents are splitting. But just how severely are these kids affected? We […]

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Nicole 11 years ago

i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after then i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner prophet jakula at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby.if you are any way in such problem i will advice you to contact him on his email address

Mike Olivia 10 years ago

My Name is Ms. Olivia mike, I was married to my husband for 13 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2009 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to Dr.Justus, but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man Justus is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail phone number ,, +2347033354868.

Christine 10 years ago

My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 5. We both were previously married both for the wrong reasons. We had known each other for years I had moved away for school but some how years later we ended up at each others feet (serendipity). The best thing that EVER happened to us. We knew by the second date after saying we would never get married again that we were going to be together forever. The first 5 years were amazing we had 2 beautiful children which neither of us thought we could so they were a true miracle from God. Well right when I got pregnant with the second child we had decide to make some changes in our lives. we had almost lost our son and after he got out of ICU a couple months later he started talking about a man coming down and visiting him at night then he saw a picture of Jesus and said look there is the man. We had never mentioned Jesus in our home we were non active . We both pretty much always have drank a few beers a night.. We made the choice to quit. Well I was pregnant so I had to quit anyway. Well my husband became really religious and as soon as I had the baby I was ready for a beer well he did not like that so I started hiding it and he was catching on quick so I ended up taking pills to escape because he could not smell those well it all backfired next came lies of where I was who I was with what was I doing then came worse drugs because it was a non stop lie of who I was becoming. I have pretty much crossed all the lines you do not cross when you love someone except the cheating because that is one thing that is still holding us together and is sacred to both of us. It really scares me because it is at that point where we both are looking for someone to build us up and that leads to cheating. I am so sad it has gotten to this point and we both have said and done things to each other that is really hard to forgive. I know if we were %90 of other couple we would have been through a year ago we have been through so many challenges almost dying giving birth to my first child, then when he was Two he had a seizer they could not stop overdosed him and had to life flight him to primary's for weeks then shortly after my husband cut his hand and black out and the drama to his body brought tout a illness and he was deathly ill for a year until they figured it out after we went to every specialist in Utah . I had my last child I had the worst pregnancy ever in and out of hospitals then a month after I had her I had to major grandma seizures do to medication then I got post pardoned so bad I had never believed in it until I went through it I thought I was loosing my mind so I started using more and more then a year later I died Three times on my way to the hospital in a ambulance I had a major asthma attack right after that I lost my job I have had for years do to my tardiness and lack of judgment do to drugs and right after that I found out my 18 yr old daughter who had graduated a year early and had grants was pregnant with a wife beater wanna be gangster tattoo artist 5 years older then her baby. He was her first everything she had not even kissed a boy and he gave her chlamydia the second time. Now she has moved back home because he got arrested for beating her and she just found out she is pregnant again her baby is 7 months old. see so we have been through a lot. Not to mention we use to always have at least 10 grand in the bank and pay cash for everything now we are in forcloser and have pretty much sold everything and getting food from the chuch do to 100s of thousands dollars in medical bills. My ? is you think there is a chance to gain that trust and respect back and how? I am still taking pills here and there and drinking and I know I need to start by quitting those because he thinks I don't love him because I wont quit for him. He does not understand I am an attic. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!! I love him sooooooo much.

Mike_Olsen_SMN 10 years ago

Christine, I am sorry to hear about all of the issues you are dealing with in your relationship and your family. I encourage you and your husband to watch this video:

Guess it really is over 10 years ago

Not really sure how to feel anymore, my husban of 22 years moved out 9 months ago, and in with someone I thought was my friend. We are not divorced yet but he put a ring on her finger 3 months after he left. She was divorced 2 years ago after her friend had a affair with her husban, but she felt it was ok to do it to me because she was lonely and needed to be loved. This woman has money and I can not compete with that, just wished after 26 years toghter my husban could have not thought about me before he thought having an affair was ok. Took this woman 3 month to end a 26 year friendship oh the friendship had to end to her orders.

Cody 10 years ago

I have been married for over 5 years.....When i met my wife i knew she was my soul-mate. I have failed to give her the love and attention she deserves. I cheated on her about 3 years ago. continued off and on for over a year. When she found out i stopped.....I have never touched another woman my wife is has audio recordings of me and a female...I'm fixing to loose my marriage over recordings that are not true...and I have no real way to prove it is not me.....she doesn't believe me.....I made a mistake in the past, but these recordings are not

Mike_Olsen_SMN 10 years ago

Cody, I think the best thing the two of you can do right now is communicate. Be sure each of you are expressing your feelings to one another. It is also important to listen to each other as well. Hopefully this will help the two of you resolve your problems. Here is a video on "How To Improve the Communication in Your Relationship."

emilly 10 years ago

My name is Emilly Thompson and there was a time marriage was falling apart, and Husband doesn’t want us to fight anymore, he said he just wants to turn the page over and start fresh away from me, we both Dated for 5years and married for almost 16 years, I knew i am not perfect and I have done things that hurt him specially with his very complicated family. But I have said sorry to his family and himself was simply in total rejection of me. I loved him with all my heart and if it wasn’t prophet Abayator from the Ajagumashirne I would have lost him (My husband) and everything we had build since we met. I don’t know how he did it but all i can say is that he is a problem solver. Any one experiencing such should contact him at , but for futher details or to confirm more about him contact me at

unhappy 10 years ago

My husband is cruel, lies and definitely only thinks of himself. When I ran out of money out went the nice. I knew it was fake but there's nothing someone with cancers, severe injuries, and low vision can do. I tried getting help from places that claim to help blind and low vision people. Nothing. I give up on life. if he leaves Im homeless

Mike_Olsen_SMN 10 years ago

Hi Unhappy - I don't know where you live to give you resources, but I encourage you to get help from yourself from a counselor. Don't give up.

patty 9 years ago

Chris 9 years ago

My wife and I have been married for 9 years and together for 16. We have two beautiful daughters. Before I get into things I just want to say that we're not terrible people. We were put into a situation and we did what we thought was best at the time. A few years ago my wife found out she was pregnant, and it wasn't planned. We didn't want anymore children before she found out and when we found out it was shocking. We could hardly afford the bills now and we couldn't imagine starting all over again with another baby. After countless hours of discussion we decided to terminate the pregnancy. This is certainly something that we are proud of. We both wake up every morning regretting the desicion we made. Things kinda got back to normal after a couple weeks and lasted for about 6 months. That's when I started noticing a change in her. She would zone everyone out and not pay attention to anything even our two daughters. I noticed that she started to slip away from me. She has told me that when she went through the termination that something changed in her and she doesn't know how to come back from that. That she doesn't see us having a normal relationship ever again. Since then we've contiplated separation but I just can't, everything I do is for my family. As of now we've been sleeping in different rooms for a month and haven't been intimate for over a year. Any advances I make towards her are quickly halted. I just don't know what to do or where to turn at this point. I hate that every time I talk to her and every time she looks at me I get anger from her. I just don't know where to turn.

Mike_Olsen_SMN 9 years ago

Hi Chris - Your wife is feeling overwhelming guilt. She needs to see a therapist to help her work through this, and you need to show her that is okay, and maybe go with her for support and to work through your own grief. Whether it was the best choice or not, there is still going to be that loss of a child to work through.

Kris Stone 9 years ago

Can my marriage be saved when my husband moved out 2 nights ago to find himself??

Mike_Olsen_SMN 9 years ago

Hi Kris, we certainly think so.

dina 9 years ago

how do you save a marriage of some 50 years when a husband suggests a 3 way sex session?

Mike_Olsen_SMN 9 years ago

Hi Dina - I think the best answer is that it's up to you and your spouse. If you are uncomfortable with the possibly of an addition in the bedroom, consider what might be the root origin of his request. If things are getting routine, perhaps look at a different idea of spicing this up, such as roleplay.

Ann 9 years ago

I have found that my husband has been seeing other women and he says it is just seeing them but he is not doing anything with them so therefore he is not cheating on me, I want to believe him but he has been caught in lies before what can I do to save my marriage? Should I save my marrage?

Denise Margaret 8 years ago

I have been rejected by my husband all time i have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early November 2015 last year After three years of marriage just because a different woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. I was really worried and hopeless, so i met with this spell caster Lord Vasikar on the internet after a long search. And he told me what i needed to do, and he also assured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 21th December. I neither did not believe my eyes. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and authentic spell caster and your website is the best i have ever come across. This is so mind-boggling for me. Westcott is back!!! I haven't by any means experienced something like this before. Thank you so much Lord Vasikar. I never expected such a result. Dream comes true. Wow! You were so kind with me. "And may your kindness float back to you like ripples that float back to sea shore". Thank you sir for your precious help. I never believe that I will Celebrate Xmas with my husband, I have never been so happy in my life like the way i am today. You are a genuine spirit. You and your work will never be forgotten for making me a fulfilled woman and reuniting me and my ex husband once again. You are my hero.. The kids are overjoyed to have their father come back home for good. Sir here i am sharing your testimony just as i promised. Here is his website: and also his Email: Thank you so much sir from your grateful client Denise Margaret.

Sarah Lincoln 8 years ago

My name is Sarah Lincoln, from USA I have heard of spells but I never believed in it. I do see it as evil but now not all spells are evil I can assure you. I never believed in love spell or magic either until I met this spell caster in Africa Sometime in November last year when I went to Africa for a business summit. I went to this Business summit heartbroken and unhappy infarct I was battered. I met a friend who also came for this summit infarct the hotel my organization paid for that I should lodge was the same hotel she was staying. Her name is Tara Fabian. The 3rd day of the submit, we boded the same taxi to the hotel. As we where going she started telling me things she noticed about me during the course of this summit. I observed how unhappy you are for the past 2 days she said. What is the matter she asked? At first it was difficult to discus with someone you haven’t seen before and I was shocked how she managed to know I wasn’t fine. Well I couldn’t hold back anymore but busted into tears. At this point I told her all I have been going through, how the man I had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down because our relationship has been on for 6years. . I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. What hurts more is that my man was now going out with my best friend Ann and has proposed marriage to her. Tara promised to help me and she also made me to know that I will get my man back. As God may have it, the 5th day was the day we had to rest before attending the last summit. Tara took me to a man who’s name is Dr. Oligbe Akas he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first I was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to USA, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it because the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all I wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is ( Am the happiest woman on earth now because my husband and I are living happily now. All I have said is true but be careful not to be deceived because it seems there are lots of scammers out who are extorting money from people via the internet. You can contact me through my mail ( if you want to confirm from me.

tiffany 8 years ago

Hi my name is Tiffany .me and my husband has been married for 4 years and he does not seem happy or anything . we fight all the time we argue and he said that I'm pushing him away and I don't think I am though I love him with all my heart and soul I just wished that he realize that

mary olwen 8 years ago

Hello everyone, My name is Mary Olwen from Ohio,USA. I came to this site to share the good works of the online spell caster who reunited me with my husband and we are happily married now. I never believed in love, money spells or magic until i met this powerful spell caster when i went to Africa in December last year on a business trip. He is really powerful and he can help you cast spells to bring back your lover even when he or she is gone, well, the man i wanted to marry left me 2 weeks before our wedding day and my life was miserable because our relationship has been on for years ..I really loved him, but his ex fiancee was against us and she used vodoo to distract him and make him hate me. But when i met this spell caster Dr Michael Best, i narrated my ordeal to him and he assured me of reconciliation once i get back to the states. and right now we are happily married and expecting our little kid, and my husband now loves me more than he did before. Should you need his help you can reach him via the email below : ..........................thank you