How To Be As Hot as George Clooney and Brad Pitt Without Working Out

Ryan Reynolds on the cover of Peoplecourtesy of People Magazine I’m sure you’ve seen the November 29, 2010 People magazine issue “The Sexiest Men Alive.” Do you want to know what really makes these men sexy and what traits are irresistible to women? Surprisingly enough, it’s not their dreamy eyes, cut abs and hot butts. […]

Make this the best Thanksgiving ever!

It’s the season to be thankful–thankful for who we are, what we have and especially who we love. Here’s an exercise to help you get back in touch with what you love about your partner. Take the time to celebrate the true spirit of Thanksgiving. You’ll be amazed at how wonderful you’ll feel after following […]

Can Prince William and Kate’s Marriage Make it?

I’m sure you’ve heard the news about Prince William and Kate’s engagement. Are you excited? It’s so great to see young love. Remember how fun and exciting it was to be newly engaged and in love? Check out this article where you’ll see Dr. Fillmore’s recommendations for the love-birds to start out on the right […]

Do you love your partner but are no longer “in love?”

If so, you’re not alone. So many couples come to counseling because they are no longer in love with their partner and they feel like they’re marriage is over. One of the first things I tell these couples is that it’s normal to fall out and back in love again in a long term marriage. […]

Tip to Improve Communication in Your Marriage

Here’s a tip that will quickly improve the communication in your relationship. We’ve surveyed hundreds of couples and the area they most want to improve is communication. What’s the most important part of communication in a relationship? Listening. Most people are great at making their point but are not great listeners. Why is it so […]

Do men have more affairs than women?

Many of us believe that men initiate more affairs than women do but the fact is that the ratio is more like 50/50.  Women have just as many affairs as men do.  In fact, 50% of marriages are impacted by some sort of infidelity. Do you wonder about how to protect your marriage from infidelity?  […]

How do I get my marriage back on track?

We’ve all heard about how 50% of marriages fail in the United States. But, are you curious as to why? Two thirds of divorces are initiated by women and the most common complaint that women have about their marriage is that their spouse doesn’t pay enough attention to them. After a few years of marriage, […]

Why do most women initiate divorce?

Did you know that two thirds of all divorces are initiated by women?  One of the most common complaints that women have is that their husbands don’t pay enough attention to them.  They feel like their husbands don’t appreciate what they do and don’t acknowledge them.  They also feel like their husbands don’t listen to […]

How to save your marriage even if your spouse is checked out

In a short blog post, I clearly can’t cover everything on how to save your marriage but there are some key issues that impact most couples and we’ll cover those and give you tips to address them.  Most couples have issues with time together, communication and sex.  Here’s three tips to help you get started […]