How to save your marriage even if your spouse is checked out

In a short blog post, I clearly can’t cover everything on how to save your marriage but there are some key issues that impact most couples and we’ll cover those and give you tips to address them.  Most couples have issues with time together, communication and sex.  Here’s three tips to help you get started on the right track.

Tip #1:  Spend Time Together

One of the biggest mistakes that couples make is not spending enough Time Alone Together. When couples don’t spend enough time together, they grow apart.  We recommend you spend at least 8 hours alone together per week in order to reconnect as a man and a woman.  So get your calendars out and schedule it today.

Tip #2:  Start Really Listening to Each Other

One of the first things couples need to work on when improving their communication is listening.  Most people are great at talking and making their point, but they don’t listen worth a damn.

Listening is in fact the most important part of communication.  It allows you to resolve conflict and deepens your connection as a couple.  So stop talking and start listening, you’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish.

Tip #3:  Understand Mother Nature’s Big Joke

And finally, I need to tell you about one of mother nature’s big jokes.  A man feels connected by having sex.  But a woman needs to feel connected in order to have sex.   Neither one is wrong.  So, one of the secrets to improving your sex life is to regularly connect.  This can be as easy a phone call in the middle of the day, a brief kiss in the kitchen, or a simple statement of appreciation. You might be asking, what do these have to do with sex?  But I’m telling you, connecting with your partner goes a long way toward a happy sex life.

Whatever you decide to do, don’t wait too much longer.  Understand that your marriage is the most important investment the two of you can ever make.

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maria andros 13 years ago

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