So we stood up in front of God and man and promised to love and cherish each other, right? Then why does the person we’re married to sometimes have the ability to hurt us more than anybody else on the planet? The answer is that they are hurt themselves. They have what I like to […]

Many of you have told us that you’ve been impacted by some sort of infidelity and you reached out to us at StrongMarriageNow.com to ask for help.  On our teleseminar last week, “5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage.” Dr. Fillmore address that very concern. The most common questions you asked about affairs were: “Is my […]

Are you worried your marriage is over because of an affair? Does it mean you’re headed for divorce? Take heart, your marriage can be saved. Read the article below to learn the six steps to save your marriage after an affair. Six Steps to Save Your Marriage After an Affair After reading the article, please […]

It’s the season to be thankful–thankful for who we are, what we have and especially who we love. Here’s an exercise to help you get back in touch with what you love about your partner. Take the time to celebrate the true spirit of Thanksgiving. You’ll be amazed at how wonderful you’ll feel after following […]

If so, you’re not alone. So many couples come to counseling because they are no longer in love with their partner and they feel like they’re marriage is over. One of the first things I tell these couples is that it’s normal to fall out and back in love again in a long term marriage. […]

Here’s a tip that will quickly improve the communication in your relationship. We’ve surveyed hundreds of couples and the area they most want to improve is communication. What’s the most important part of communication in a relationship? Listening. Most people are great at making their point but are not great listeners. Why is it so […]

Many of us believe that men initiate more affairs than women do but the fact is that the ratio is more like 50/50.  Women have just as many affairs as men do.  In fact, 50% of marriages are impacted by some sort of infidelity. Do you wonder about how to protect your marriage from infidelity?  […]