How To Fall Back In Love

Has your partner told you “I love you but I’m not ‘in love’ with you?” Are you wondering if it’s possible to save your marriage and regain the affection you want?

Even if your spouse wants out, or is checked out of your marriage, you can get back the love you desire. We all want to feel needed by our partner and safe in our relationship but many of us are unconsciously making mistakes that push our spouses away.

Here are links to marriage transforming articles and videos from Dr. Dana Fillmore, Author, TV Personality and Clinical Psychologist, to help you and your partner fall back in love.

Videos To Help You Get Back The Love

How To Reconnect And Feel Close Again

One day you may wake up to discover that you and your spouse have become roommates instead of loving partners. Even if your spouse has one foot out the door, it is still possible to get them to recommit to your marriage.


How To Get Over Years of Disappointment

Even if your spouse has let you down consistently for a long period of time, it is still possible to work on your marriage.


Feeling Lonely or Disconnected?

When a member of a couple does not feel loved, this can lead to feelings of disconnectedness and resentment. Find out how to reconnect and have the loving relationship you want.


What To Do When Your Spouse’s Feelings Have Changed And You Feel Blindsided

Even though many people don't want to acknowledge it, people can change over the course of a long term relationship. There are ways to adapt so you don't feel so lost in the new state of things.


Afraid It’s Over? Spouse Wants Out?

Don’t do anything until you watch these marriage saving videos from Dr. Dana.

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Grown Apart? How to Fix Your Marriage

Many couples dissolve when they grow apart. There are precautions you can take to make sure that you grow together instead.


How To Feel More Love. Be The First To Compromise

A big requirement for a long term relationship to work is compromise. Both partners must be willing to compromise in order for the relationship to flourish.


How To Avoid 3 Common Relationship Mistakes

You man notice that many couples who undergo couple's therapy end up divorcing anyway. There are many reasons this happens, and Dr. Dana offers us the three biggest mistakes couples make.


5 Ways To Fall Back In Love

When you realize that your relationship is in trouble, the best strategy is to fall back in love. It can be done, and is easier than you think.


How To Get Your Marriage Unstuck

Marriage is a choice, but it’s not simple and it’s certainly not always easy.


How To Tear Down The Wall Between You

Couples working on the intimacy in their relationship often overlook the importance of being fun and spontaneous. It is a great way to get over any blockage in your relationship.


10 Ways to Reconnect

People often feel more connected during the holidays, but it also possible to keep that feeling alive throughout the year.


You Probably Have Hedonic Adaptation - Here’s What It Is And What To Do About It

It may be a confusing sounding term, but chances are you are a victim of Hedonic Adaptation. It can simply be described as a loss of excitement when something is no longer new.


Feel Stuck? Have A Breakthrough

It is common to believe that your spouse cannot change, but that is a myth that will prevent you from having a happy marriage.


The Easiest Way To Physical Bonding

Human beings are creatures of habit. The more physical contact you make with your spouse, the more you will actually want it.


Common Relationship Myth - “People Can’t Change”

It is a common misconception that people cannot change. People are constantly changing, but the real question is "how motivated are you to change your marriage for the better"?


Feeling Alone In Your Marriage? Reconnect With Your Partner Using Dr. Dana’s Ground Rules

One day you may wake up to discover that you and your spouse have become roommates instead of loving partners. Even if your spouse has one foot out the door, it is still possible to get them to recommit to your marriage.


5 Surefire Ways A Couple Stays Together

Here are five tips to help you feel a loving connection to your spouse. They are guaranteed to keep your relationship strong and on the right track.


How to Get Back That “In Love” Feeling

Have you heard the words “not in love?” The good news is you can get that “in love” feeling back again by investing in your relationship and working on marriage success skills.


Common Relationship Myth - “Both People Have To Work On The Marriage In Order for Positive Change To Happen”

Even if one partner wants a divorce or separation, it is still possible to recover what has been lost. You can save your marriage even if you are the only one willing to work on it. It may be easier than you think.


Give Your Love Life A Boost

Feeling like your love life could use a boost? Give your relationship a holiday! Have you ever noticed that when we go on vacation it is often easier to “get it on?”


Are You Being Taken For Granted?

In every marriage it is critical that both spouses take the time and make the effort to be kind, thoughtful, appreciative, respectful, supportive, and affirming towards their spouse.


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Dr. Dana's Help to Feel In Love Again

Would you like to feel "in love" again? Or perhaps you have heard these words in your marriage. I’m so sorry for your situation, but I believe I can help.

First let me say, that this is an extremely common issue in a long-term marriage. The truth is, people who are married for a long time are not typically “in love” with their partner the whole time. They fall in and out of love many times over the years.

Further, if your current lack of feelings has you considering running to a new relationship, you should know that doing so won’t solve 50% of the problems that may end your current relationship, because you would be bringing yourself, (50% of the partnership), with you into the new relationship. Staying and working on yourself and through the issues with your current partner allows you to learn and grow and therefore, to become a better person and partner.

So, let me tell you the secret of people who stay married versus those who don’t stay married.

Basically, the people who stay married are willing to do what it takes to stay married - they are willing to work on it. They’re willing to learn, to grow, to change, to take risks and to take action. Let me be perfectly clear about what I am saying here: with work, almost every couple can fall back in love again.

The problem, however, is that not everyone wants to work on the marriage they currently have; meaning not everyone wants to keep the relationship the way that it is now. This is perfectly understandable, since it is probably why one or both of you no longer feels “in love.” The reality here, for both of you, is you are not (and have not been) meeting each other’s needs. I understand you may feel hurt, frustrated, resentful, or even abandoned. But it’s important during this process to remember that your spouse probably feels the same way.

Try to keep the focus on the two of you making your marriage better for the both of you, making it the marriage both of you actually want.

If you feel like you need help getting those loving feelings back, chances are one or both of you may be “checked out” of your marriage. To learn how both you and your partner can get checked back into your marriage, I give you five clear steps you can take in our two-part video series called, How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In. In this video series, I talk about the typical love-cycle of a marriage, and I tell you how to get the spouse that’s checked out to watch the second video. By the end of the first video, you’ll have hope and some clear steps to get both you and your spouse checked back into your marriage.

The second video is specifically designed to help motivate the spouse that is checked out to work on the marriage. In that video, I talk about how being happily married is a learned skill. I get real honest about the meaning of commitment and give some straightforward facts about the impact of divorce. Also, I help both of you avoid some common mistakes that you may be making in your marriage. I’ll explain that there are clear “do-able” steps you and your partner can take to get your marriage back on track. I’ll list the practical skills that lead to a happy marriage. And, finally, I’ll tell you where you can learn them and how to make them last.

To learn more about what you can do to get those loving feelings back and get you and your partner checked back into your marriage, take a look at our Two-Part Video Series “How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In.”

Discover How to Feel In Love Again

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