Connect, Communicate and End The Fighting System

Are You Tired of Fighting and Frustrated With Communication?

Find Out How to Stop The Battles, Finally Be Heard and Have Peace at Home*

Do you want to:

  • Stop the Fighting
  • Finally Be Heard and Understood
  • Stop the Pain and End Your Hurt Feelings
  • Stop Feeling Stuck and Move forward
  • Avoid Common Communication Mistakes that Can Threaten Your Marriage
  • Get the Help You Need Without Seeing a Couples Counselor
  • Have the Fulfilling, Loving, Passionate Relationship You Desire

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

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Hi, I’m Dr. Dana Fillmore. I’m a Clinical Psychologist and I’ve been helping couples and families for over 15 years. I'm known for revitalizing and saving marriages. People come to see me when they can’t think of anything else to do to help their marriage.

Now, if you’re reading this, you may be in that place. You may be frustrated with your communication, feel like your partner just doesn't hear you or you're tired of fighting. Does one of the following describe your situation?

  • Maybe you’re a “happily” married couple going about your daily lives, but you never really interact as a man and a woman and something is missing and has been for awhile now.
  • Maybe there’s a general state of apathy in your relationship and you don't even try to communicate with each other anymore.
  • Maybe you’re engaged in a cold war - where there’s not constant fighting exactly, but underlying resentments are leading to withdrawal, avoidance and lonelineness.
  • Maybe you’re the couple who constantly promises to change, but no action is ever taken to make things better.
  • Maybe you’re the couple who is constantly fighting and the hurt and resentment has taken its toll on both partners and/or the rest of the family.


These are all incredibly difficult and painful situations and I applaud you for facing the problem, reaching out, and taking action to make a change.

Try our Special 5-part Video Package:

Connect, Communicate and End The Fighting System

You'll be able to finally solve these issues:

  • Constant fighting
  • Spouse who won’t listen
  • Feeling disconnected
  • Uncooperative partner
  • Pain over past or ongoing hurts
  • Poor communication
  • Lack of affection and appreciation
  • Underlying resentment
  • Anger issues
  • Loneliness

Are You Struggling With Any of These Problems in Your Marriage?

Our Program Can Help You and Your Spouse Start Feeling Close Again

There are five videos in this series that will transform your relationship.

Video #1: Couples Communication. Dr. Dana will explain how to make communication easier and lighten things up. She'll offer two specific techniques that can improve your communication right away.

Video #2:How to Really Listen. She shares the barriers to listening and helps you and your spouse regain a powerful connection.

Video #3: How To Speak So Your Partner Hears You. Dr. Dana will talk you through the four ways to communicate so that your partner will finally "get" what you're talking about.

Video #4: Fighting, What Not To Do. You'll stop the fighting once and for all and have peace at home again.

Video #5: How To Be Happily Married Forever. You'll learn the secret of living happily ever after.

AND, you get four exercises to apply Dr. Dana's advice to help your marriage right away.

Why am I so confident I can help you stop fighting and regain peace? I’ve helped hundreds of couples who were on the verge of divorce turn their marriages around. Here are just a few stories of couples whose marriages were revitalized.

"We Know We're Going To Be Okay Thanks To Dr. Dana"*

-- Matt & Angie -- Monrovia, CA

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

"Thank you! Now, I can be graceful instead of angry and better communicate with my husband."*

Kathleen W - La Jolla, CA

Produced great results!*

"Dr. Fillmore and the StrongMarriageNow System is fantastic! Her straightforward advice has improved my relationship with my husband and children. Her practical advice (for example, regular dates with my husband!) was easy to achieve, made sense, and produced great results. She is energetic, enthusiastic, confident and passionate about her work. She tells it like it is, without beating around the bush, so she does not waste my time!"

Carol, Bay Park, CA
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I immediately saw a difference*

"Dr Fillmore's advice has been invaluable to me and my family. Her advice is direct and actionable but never criticizes. She helps you to understand that there is no fault; we have different ways of expressing ourselves and it is important to recognize our differences and work with them rather than being angry that things aren't going our way. With her simple, straightforward approach, you'll immediately start seeing a difference in how you communicate."

Robyn, La Jolla, CA

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

Those were just three examples of the many couples whose lives have been transformed.

Don’t Let Your Marriage Slip Away

Let me tell you one last common mistake people make when they feel frustrated with their communication. Many people believe they should wait to try to mend their marriage until they feel “in love” again. In other words, they’re waiting to take any action to fix the marriage until they feel good about it again, but waiting for that feeling just won't work. You need to invest your energy and take action today to fix your marriage to get those wonderful sensations back. Learning the skills I teach and working on your marriage leads to those loving feelings again.

Did you see the movie Field of Dreams? Believe it or not, marriage is a lot like that - “build it and it will come.” Invest in learning these skills so you can revitalize your marriage and fall back in love with the person you’re already married to!

Can this really work if it’s not face-to-face?

You might not realize that couples therapy is very different than individual therapy. So much of it is teaching - helping couples learn how to truly communicate, how to stop fighting, how to understand their partner's point of view, etc. In fact, it's when couples therapists attempt to judge who is right and who is wrong - that the therapy process can get off track and actually damage the relationship. In fact, 75% of couples who see a marriage counselor actually end up breaking up! You don't want to become dependent on your therapist and in counseling forever. Your therapist won't be standing in the kitchen mediating your fight over who should be taking out the trash! You have to be empowered to handle your own issues and our videos do just that.

All in the Privacy of Your Own Home

You don’t need to make an appointment, drive to a therapist and then air out your issues in front of a stranger. Instead, you can watch the videos in the privacy of your own home. All you need is a computer and around 15 minutes a day. Are you willing to invest that much time in your marriage?

Dr. Dana Fillmore Has a Proven Track Record

Unlike many people offering online marriage advice, I am a marriage and family expert. I have Master's and Doctorate Degrees in Psychology and have been working with couples just like you and actually saving their marriages for over 15 years. In fact,

Three out of four couples who have applied my advice to their relationship report not just that they will stay together but that they WANT to stay together.*

The typical success rate for counselors across the nation is less than one in five--isn't that shocking? All the concepts in our Systems are based on years of scientific research and my experience.

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

On a personal note, I’ve been married for over 16 years and am a working mother with two kids. I know how tough it is to balance everything in life. We have struggled with and overcome the very same issues that effect most couples. Earlier in our marriage, just like many of you, we had the typical fights over money, finding time for our careers, and who's responsible for taking care of the home, just to name a few. There were certainly times when we felt distant and disconnected. But, we knew we wanted not just a happy marriage, but an exceptional marriage so we regularly applied the very skills I teach in this System, and still do to this day. I can honestly say that investing in practicing these skills has made all the difference in my relationship with my husband.

Imagine Your Future If You Take Action Right Now!

Okay, now picture yourself in two weeks after you've invested in the System. Imagine how peaceful and content you'll be. Imagine yourself laughing more, playing more, touching more and enjoying your marriage. Feel how great it is to be truly heard and understood. Your family is so happy. You're bursting with energy and excitement and having fun every day. You're the envy of others and you feel incredibly powerful.

Connect, Communicate and End The Fighting System

This program is specifically designed to end the battles, regain peace and make communication easy.* Dr. Dana shares essential information you both need to know to be heard, understood and easily handle any issues, disagreements or painful situations and empower you to build the marriage you really want. The program is the only online video marriage counseling solution where you can get a world class therapist to come to you immediately on your computer in the privacy of your own home. The program includes:

  1. Video #1: Couples Communication ($99 value)
    • Dr. Dana will reveal the importance of humor
    • How to make everything easier in your relationship
    • The perspective you can take to bring peace and comfort to your relationship
    • What to do when your partner blows it
  2. Video #2: How to Really Listen ($99 value)
    • How to deepen your connection
    • How to return a sense of honor and trust to your marriage
    • The secret to putting painful issues in the past
    • The real cause of anger and how to keep it under control
  3. Video #3: How to Speak so Your Partner Hears You ($99 value)
    • Have a clear purpose
    • Say what's really going on
    • Talk about behavior and feelings
  4. Video #4: Fighting, What Not to Do ($99 value)
    • How to fight fair
    • Know yourself and your partner
    • Gracefully resolve conflict
    • Reduce damage from fighting
  5. Video #5: How To Be Happily Married Forever ($49 value)
    • The secret to happily ever after
    • The importance of investing in your marriage
    • What to do next
  6. Four Exercises to help you quickly apply the lessons to your marriage ($149 value)

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

Total value of $594.00
for only $97.00

We’re so confident you’ll love the Program that we’re offering 110% satisfaction guarantee! If you’re not completely satisfied, simply notify us in writing within 30 days of your purchase and we’ll give you 110% of your money back.

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Okay, You Want It, But You Feel Like You Can't Afford It, Right?

How much would it be worth it to you to stop the battles? How much would you pay to have more fun with your partner? How much would it be worth to laugh again and to be able to talk about anything? Imagine how relieved you would feel to have your spouse's support and understanding no matter what you want to talk about? Would you be able to sleep soundly? Would you stop worrying? Would you have a happier family? Please ponder the life you want when thinking about what you're going to do.


P.S. Dr. Dana can really help you. Do you want to stop feeling stuck and move forward again? Do want to know what you can do to reconnect with your partner and feel the love again? Want to feel like you're growing closer and building your dream life rather than drifting further and further apart? The 5-part Video Package: Stop Fighting System, an innovative alternative to traditional counseling, will help get you there. Dr. Dana will teach you:

  • How to make communication easier
  • The 4 steps to make sure you will be heard
  • What's really going on when your spouse is angry
  • How to connect again
  • How to increase the love and affection in your marriage


P.P.S. Imagine what your life will be in a few days or even a year, if you TAKE ACTION and invest in your marriage today! Will you be able to rest easy? Will you feel comfortable? Will you feel more hopeful about your future? DON”T WAIT! Get started with our Special 5-part Video Package TODAY!

*Results may vary. See footer for more details.

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Searching for answers is usually an avoidance tactic.
In order to start saving your marriage you need to decide that is what you really want to do.
If that is what you want then watch these videos. 




  1. Discover how to feel the love again in your marriage
  2. Get your partner checked back into your relationship
  3. Get past the pain and move forward