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Dr. Dana’s Secret to Solve Marriage Problems

Dr Dana Fillmore

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The questions we are most often asked are: “How can I solve the problems in my marriage if I can’t get my spouse in on it?” “How can we save our marriage when we are no longer connected?”  “My husband is in a deep depression - can we save our marriage?” “I’ve read several marriage articles, but they don’t seem to help - what can I do by myself?” “Divorce rates are so high - can my marriage be saved?”

These are all variations on the same question - “Can I save my failing marriage/ relationship? Is it even possible?” The answer is:  Absolutely!  Almost every marriage can be saved and even made much better than ever!


Three out of four couples who learn and apply Dr. Dana's
Marriage Success Skills say they WANT to stay together

But let’s face it, not everyone wants to save the marriage they currently have - meaning not everyone wants to keep the marriage the way that it is.  However, I’m talking both about saving the relationship and making it better, making it the marriage the two of you actually want.  But in order to do that it’s important to keep this one thing in mind:

It’s completely normal to fall in
and out of love in a long-term marriage.

People who are married for a long time are not typically “in love” with their partner the whole time. They fall in and out of love many times over the years.

You know that 80-year-old couple that’s dancing at the wedding who clearly adore each other and still look madly in love?  Well, those people will tell you that they were not madly in love every day for the last 60 years.  In fact, there were many times when they wanted to toss each other out of a window!  Still, they’ve weathered life’s ups and downs and they genuinely adore each other today.  We all want to be that 80-year-old couple, right?  We want people to say, “Wow, look at them, I want that kind of marriage.”  Well, that couple will tell you that it took two things to get to that point: commitment and the willingness to work on the marriage.

In fact, here’s one of the marriage statistics that we quote in our upcoming book:

Research indicates that 86% of
unhappily married couples that stay together
and work on their marriage report
being much happier later on in life.

In other words, they’re glad they did. So for those of you who ask, “Can my marriage be saved?” now you know that you can save your marriage and that falling in and out of love is normal.   I hope you have hope again.  I hope you know that if you’re willing to do the work, things can get considerably better for both you and your spouse.

Having said all this, we are asked what to do if one partner has already moved out, is already dating somebody else and/or has already filed papers. Now, I first want to say that not all of these necessarily mean the marriage is over for every couple, but I am now going to address the fact that sometimes a marriage is over.  Or more accurately, it should be over.  As detrimental as going through the divorce process is to both partners as well as to the kids, prolonging the process and leaving everybody in a state of limbo is even more damaging.  Sometimes we have to make the call, take the time to grieve, heal, then move on with our lives.  So how do you know when to divorce?

My answer is this: If you’re going to walk away from a marriage and possibly your children, please do so only after knowing that you did absolutely everything in your power to make your marriage work.  You ended potentially dangerous relationships, (with members of the opposite sex or with those who were otherwise negatively impacting your marriage), you quit your job, (and got another, again for the reasons previously mentioned), you moved, you read self-help books, you sought counseling - you made every effort to learn and to practice all the marriage skills you could get your hands on.  Please ensure that you’ve done everything there is to do.  If you genuinely believe that you’ve done everything you can to save your marriage and it has not worked, then you can nevertheless move on knowing that there was nothing more you could possibly have done.  But if there is -DO IT!

Dr. Dana’s advice in the StrongMarriageNow System is a great alternative to face-to-face marriage counseling if you’re looking to fix your marriage problems.  In fact, we’re really seeing that in most cases, watching the online videos in the privacy of your own home and completing the exercises is actually better at solving marriage problems than most face-to-face therapy.


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Common Questions & Answers to Fixing Your Marriage Problems


“How do we connect again as a couple?”

In the StrongMarriageNow System we talk in depth about what we call The Most Important Lesson.  We point out that most married couples do not spend nearly enough time alone together.  Most married couples spend as little as one hour a week alone together; the average couple with kids, sometimes none.  The average couple having an affair can spend up to 15 hours alone per week.  Isn’t that unreal?   I recommend that couples spend at least 8 hours alone together every week.

“What about infidelity?  Is a marriage over after an affair?”

We answer this question at length in our teleseminar, but let me just say that the answer is: Absolutely Not!  A marriage can be saved after an affair, if you both commit to forgive, get the relationship skills you need, and commit to work together on the marriage. In fact, the marriage can not only be saved, it can be made even stronger and happier than ever before!

“What about Christian Marriages Problems?" is compatible with most faiths, religions and walks of life.  The StrongMarriageNow System teaches principles that honor marriage:  love, commitment, honesty, trust and connection. Dr. Dana teaches that we all have choices in how we think, act, and behave and she gives you the tools to make more effective choices.   She also teaches that we can choose our attitude towards our life and our relationships.  Dr. Dana is empowering and thought-provoking.  We are not affiliated with any political organization.


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Three out of four couples who learn and apply Dr. Dana's
Marriage Success Skills say they WANT to stay together

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Searching for answers is usually an avoidance tactic.
In order to start saving your marriage you need to decide that is what you really want to do.
If that is what you want then watch these videos. 




  1. Discover how to feel the love again in your marriage
  2. Get your partner checked back into your relationship
  3. Get past the pain and move forward