Marriage Advice

How To Marriage Advice For You From Dr. Dana - Tips For A Happy Marriage

Wondering what the difference is between couples that are happily married and those that are miserable? The difference is knowing how to be happily married. Check out Dr. Dana's best marriage advice tips on keeping the love alive, communicating effectively, forgiveness, sex, dealing with an affair and more.

The good news is that just one person trying some new tips can rekindle the spark between you. But, you’ve got to do it right. Most people trying to fix their marriage make mistakes that can be damaging and hurtful.

Here are links to powerful articles and videos from Dr. Dana Fillmore, Author, TV Marriage Expert and Clinical Psychologist, to help you actually live the fairy tale of happily ever after. It doesn't take Prince Charming. Just some great marriage advice.

Marriage Advice Videos

How To Improve The Communication In Your Relationship

Communication is one of the most common issues in a marriage and Dr. Dana has a powerful and surprisingly simple tip to make everything easier between you and your spouse.

How To Regain Trust Once It’s Been Destroyed

How do regain trust when it has been destroyed? Don't you have to have trust as the foundations to your marriage?

How To Save Your Marriage On Your Own. It Is Possible!

Even if one partner wants a divorce or separation, it is still possible to recover what has been lost. You can save your marriage even if you are the only one willing to work on it. It may be easier than you think.

How To Get Over Years of Disappointment

Even if your spouse has let you down consistently for a long period of time, it is still possible to work on your marriage.

7 Steps To Survive An Affair

If you've been impacted by an infidelity, you're marriage doesn't have to be over. Discover 7 steps to save your marriage after an affair.

How To Forgive And Move Forward

Lack of Forgiveness can drive a wedge between you and eventually erode the love in your marriage. Discover how to forgive and keep your love alive.

Midlife Crisis Threatening Your Marriage?

How can you save your marriage when your partner is in the throes of midlife crisis and wants to throw everything away?

How To Reconnect And Feel Close Again

One day you may wake up to discover that you and your spouse have become roommates instead of loving partners. Even if your spouse has one foot out the door, it is still possible to get them to recommit to your marriage.

Discover How To Have A More Passionate Sex Life

Are you dissatisfied with your sex life? Are you longing for more romance, intimacy and passion in your relationship?




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Get Dr. Dana’s Marriage Advice to Fix Your Relationship

Here's some of Dr. Dana's answers to common marriage advice questions...

“We’re about to get married and yet we hardly ever see each other any more! How do we connect again as a couple? Any newlywed advice?”

In the StrongMarriageNow System we talk in depth about what we call The Most Important Lesson.  We point out that most couples do not spend nearly enough time alone together.  Most married couples spend as little as one hour a week alone together; the average couple with kids, sometimes none.  The average couple having an affair can spend up to 15 hours alone per week.  Isn’t that unreal?   I recommend that couples spend at least 8 hours alone together every week.

“What about infidelity?  Is a marriage over after an affair?”

We answer this question at length in our webinar, 5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage, but let me just say that the answer is: Absolutely Not!  A marriage can be saved after an affair, if you both commit to forgive, get the relationship skills you need, and commit to work together on the marriage. In fact, the marriage can not only be saved, it can be made even stronger and happier than ever before!

“What about emotional affairs?”

On a quick side note, we frequently receive questions about what constitutes infidelity.  We receive descriptions of lots of inappropriate friendships, “She’s really close to the neighbor guy, but they’re just friends,” “He’s really close to a co-worker, but they’re just friends,” etc.  While we cover this in greater depth in our Affair-Proof Your Marriage series, I want to say this: when you are married, you should never be close friends with someone of the opposite sex who is not just as close to your spouse.  The reason for this is because if you are close friends with someone of the opposite sex who is not also equally close to your spouse, you are getting your emotional needs met outside of your marriage. Further, you are most likely not fulfilling your spouse’s emotional needs either and that combination puts your marriage in extreme jeopardy.

“We just got engaged! Any engagement advice? Wedding advice? Advice for the bride and groom?  How about ‘married advice’ poems? Any love quotes?”

Well, I’ll leave the wedding advice to the wedding planner, but I will tell you the Golden Rule of Marriage:  You must give in your marriage, what you want to receive.
If you want to be trusted, you must trust.  If you want kindness, you must be kind.  If you want to be forgiven, you must forgive.  And most importantly, if you want to be loved, you must give love.   In fact, one of the best “love quotes” ever, came from the Beatles:

“And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.”

Our whole StrongMarriageNow System is about connecting with your partner, learning how to give affection to each other in the best possible way and how to have better sex; it’s basically all about finding the love!

“What about Christian Marriage Tips?” is compatible with most faiths, religions and walks of life.  The StrongMarriageNow System teaches principles that honor marriage:  love, commitment, honesty, trust and connection.  Dr. Dana teaches that we all have choices in how we think, act, and behave and she gives you the tools to make more effective choices.  She also teaches that we can choose our attitude towards our life and our relationships.  Dr. Dana is empowering and thought-provoking.  We are not affiliated with any political organization.