Marriage Advice - Keeping Love Alive

Is your marriage feeling ho-hum? Do you feel more like roommates than lovers? Are you looking for ways to feel more love, passion and excitement in your relationship?

It’s critical that you don’t take your marriage for granted. If you assume your spouse will always be there for you without keeping the love alive, you may find your mariage slipping away from you.

And, you’d be surprised at how quickly your relationship can change when one partner learns some new marriage tips and applies them. The whole mood can shift quickly and you’ll find yourself having more fun together again.

Here are links to marriage transforming articles and videos from Dr. Dana Fillmore, Author, TV Personality and Clinical Psychologist, to help you and your partner maintain the fun, love and passion in your marriage.

You may also want to check out Dr. Dana’s marriage advice in the Forgiveness, Communication in Marriage and Sex and Intimacy categories.

Videos To Help You Get Back The Love

What To Do When The Attraction Is Gone

It is common to lose intimacy in a long term marriage. After many years, you may discover that your partner has completely checked out. Discover how to reconnect and regain the passion in your marriage.

How To Reconnect And Feel Close Again

When a member of a couple does not feel loved, this can lead to feelings of disconnectedness and resentment. Find out how to reconnect and have the loving relationship you want.

Feel Stuck? Want More Love And Passion?

Don’t do anything until you watch these marriage transforming videos from Dr. Dana.


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5 Surefire Ways A Couple Stays Together

Here are five tips to help you feel a loving connection to your spouse. They are guaranteed to keep your relationship strong and on the right track.

Support Your Spouse’s Passions

While maintaining your responsibilities are important, making an effort to spend time alone with your spouse is of the utmost important to your marriage, fostering personal growth is also quite necessary for long-term happiness.

6 Common Marriage Mistakes WOMEN Make

Mistakes are an inevitable part of life, and as easy as it is to look past the little things, ongoing mistakes in behavior can threaten the foundations of your marriage, and even lead to its collapse.

6 Common Marriage Mistakes MEN Make

Sometimes we don’t even know we’re making a mistake until someone points it out. In the spirit of letting you know what you might be doing wrong, here are six common mistakes men often make in marriage

The Surprising Power Of Happiness

According to new British research, positive emotions can actually go a long way toward preventing coronary trouble down the line. Why then should anyone allow themselves to feel trapped in an unhappy marriage?

You Have Two Choices

At every moment of every day, in every situation you encounter, you have a choice to make – and there are only two options.

10 Things Happy Couples Do

The initial fireworks when you first fall in love are spectacular, but that’s not what keeps love strong and marriages happy for years and years. Real-life happy couples do 10 things to keep their love going strong.

You Probably Have Hedonic Adaptation - Here’s What It Is And What To Do About It

It may be a confusing sounding term, but chances are you are a victim of Hedonic Adaptation. It can simply be described as a loss of excitement when something is no longer new.

Let’s Get Real

Marriage takes work, as we all know (perhaps too well), but what kind of work are we putting in, and what kind of results are we expecting?

The Importance (And Science) Of Touch

It’s safe to say that we all want to be connected, especially to our spouses. While there are plenty of ways to help foster this kind of connection, but few are so basic and so ingrained in our biology as simple, familiar touch.

The Secret To Being Happily Married For The Long Term

The people who stay happily married are willing to work on it. They’re willing to learn, to grow, to change, to take risks and to take action. Basically, they’re willing to do whatever it takes.

The Easiest Way To Physical Bonding

Human beings are creatures of habit. The more physical contact you make with your spouse, the more you will actually want it.

Keep The Small Stuff Small

When couples argue, it’s all too common for past problems to come up. When tensions are high and emotions are raging, we can’t help but roll all of the problems into one, focusing our anger toward the person for ALL of their actions, instead of the issue at hand.

Mars and Venus, Not Necessarily

Most of us believe that men and women behave very differently, especially when it comes to relationships. Those beliefs are constantly reinforced by the media, books, television shows, magazines, and movies, just to name a few.

If Music Be The Food Of Love...

Music plays an undeniably major role in our lives. Music is all around us, but how often do you notice it? How often do you notice how it makes you feel?

Are You Being Taken For Granted?

In every marriage it is critical that both spouses take the time and make the effort to be kind, thoughtful, appreciative, respectful, supportive, and affirming towards their spouse.


10 Ways to Reconnect

People often feel more connected during the holidays, but it also possible to keep that feeling alive throughout the year.

Spending Time Together As A Man And A Woman

Do you feel disconnected from your spouse? Do you feel as if you are a “husband” or a “wife,” a “mother” or “father,” but somewhere along the way you stopped being just a “man” or a “woman?” Do you even know who you’re married to anymore?

The Secret To Reconnect: Spending Time Alone Together

Do you miss the one you first fell in love with and long to reconnect? One of the best ways to reconnect and feel close again is to spend quality time alone together.

Three Little Things To Strengthen Your Marriage

Working on your marriage can sometimes be a daunting task. Even if you don’t have something huge to address, it doesn’t mean you can’t make an effort to make your relationship great!


The Importance Of Kindness

Without kindness in your relationship, your marriage will be miserable. If the sniping continues, it can damage your relationship and put it risk for even bigger issues.

What The Beatles Knew About Marriage

Despite their many quirky, strange and failed marriages, the Beatles did get one thing (though they may not have applied it) right about marriage.

Struggling in your marriage? What Have you done for your marriage today?

Are you struggling with long-standing issues in your marriage? Fixing the problem comes down to one very simple principle: thinking outside of yourself.


5 Fun Summer Date Ideas

It’s officially summer – To make the most of this great weather (or to find ways to beat the heat), make a point to spend some quality time with your spouse doing one, or ALL of these summer date ideas:


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