- Listen to a CD that you both love
- Dance in your living room
- Light candles in your bedroom
- Give each other a foot massage (and see where it goes from there)
- Take a bath together
- Go to a concert that gets you going
- Jacuzzi together (if you don’t have one, sneak into a hotel)
- Shop for bedroom toys
- Go out to a brand new restaurant and share appetizers, dinner and dessert
- Have a Stay-cation – Get somebody to watch the kids and stay at home, preferably naked for the night
Choose as many as you want and have a GREAT time!
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Dr. Dana Fillmore and Amy Barnhart, StrongMarriageNow.com
Thanks for the great ideas, but I am the only one interested. My better half most days won't even say hi or goodnight without a bad attitude. I am stuck. She doesn't even try. I have never mistreated her, but she finds a million reasons (silent ones) to not even ask me what is going on or howthings can get better. What do you have to say about differences in schooling? I finished high school and she didn't. I want her to finish, but everything is a hassle or an attack on her person. We tried a counsellor once and she just about left me over that one. What do I do? I love her deeply, but I am between a rock and a hard place. She threatened to leave me and my daughter about 8 months ago. She has threatened suicide twice over the last 6 years. I am at the end of my rope. What do I do??? We are very different culturally also. What she has done has afected our three children. I am mostly worried about our daughter who is only 10 years old. Our 2 boys are 19 and 20. I am super lonely and feel like I am in a trap. We have been married almost 22 years.