Sexy Valentine’s Day: 10 Fun and Sexy Activities to Make Your Valentine Smile

Want to spice it up this February and make your marriage more fun and exciting?  Here are ten activities that will re-invigorate those sexy vibes and give you a loving, romantic (and if you’re doing them right, sexy!) Valentines Day:   


  1. Listen to a CD that you both love
  2. Dance in your living room
  3. Light candles in your bedroom
  4. Give each other a foot massage (and see where it goes from there)
  5. Take a bath together
  6. Go to a concert that gets you going
  7. Jacuzzi together (if you don’t have one, sneak into a hotel)
  8. Shop for bedroom toys
  9. Go out to a brand new restaurant and share appetizers, dinner and dessert
  10. Have a Stay-cation – Get somebody to watch the kids and stay at home, preferably naked for the night

Choose as many as you want and have a GREAT time!

If you’d like to learn other activities and ideas to make your marriage more loving, affectionate, passionate and fulfilling, check out our StrongMarriageNow System.

Dr. Dana Fillmore and Amy Barnhart,

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Tony Massot 13 years ago

Thanks for the great ideas, but I am the only one interested. My better half most days won't even say hi or goodnight without a bad attitude. I am stuck. She doesn't even try. I have never mistreated her, but she finds a million reasons (silent ones) to not even ask me what is going on or howthings can get better. What do you have to say about differences in schooling? I finished high school and she didn't. I want her to finish, but everything is a hassle or an attack on her person. We tried a counsellor once and she just about left me over that one. What do I do? I love her deeply, but I am between a rock and a hard place. She threatened to leave me and my daughter about 8 months ago. She has threatened suicide twice over the last 6 years. I am at the end of my rope. What do I do??? We are very different culturally also. What she has done has afected our three children. I am mostly worried about our daughter who is only 10 years old. Our 2 boys are 19 and 20. I am super lonely and feel like I am in a trap. We have been married almost 22 years.

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