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Having Marriage Problems?
Are you considering Marriage Counseling?
Are you looking for advice on how to save your marriage?
Has your marriage been impacted by infidelity and you’re not sure what to do?
Are you hoping to Stop Divorce?
Before you go any further, check out Dr. Dana’s free tips on how to Save Your Marriage! You’ll get proven advice to get your marriage back on track.
Hi, I’m Dr. Dana Fillmore and the questions I hear most often asked are: “How can I save my marriage now if I can’t get my spouse in on it?” “How can we save our marriage when we are no longer connected?” “I’ve asked God to save my marriage - can it be saved?” “I am a devout christian and I believe in the sanctity of marriage. How can I save my marriage alone?” “I really want to save my relationship, but I’m afraid it’s over - is there anything I can do by myself?”
These are all variations on the same question - “Can I save my failing marriage? Is it even possible?” The answer is: Absolutely! Almost every marriage can be saved and even made much better than ever even if you’ve been impacted by infidelity!
But let’s face it, not everyone wants to save the marriage they currently have - meaning not everyone wants to keep the marriage the way that it is. However, I’m talking both about saving the relationship and making it better, making it the marriage the two of you actually want.
But in order to do that it’s important to keep this one thing in mind:
People who are married for a long time are not typically “in love” with their partner the whole time. They fall in and out of love many times over the years.
In fact, here’s one of the statistics we quote in our upcoming book: Research indicates that 86% of unhappily married couples that stay together and work on their marriage report being much happier later on in life. In other words, they’re glad they did. So for those of you who ask, “Can my marriage be saved?” now you know that you can save your marriage and that falling in and out of love is normal. I hope you have hope again. I hope you know that if you’re willing to do the work, things can get considerably better for both you and your spouse.
For those of you who are having difficulties getting your partner to go to marriage counseling, Dr. Dana has a very effective alternative to marriage counseling. Check out some of the free videos that we offer to help couples save their marriage. People are typically more open to watching something privately on their computer rather than reading a book or airing out their issues in front of a stranger. Many of our customers have felt that being able to access our marriage counseling materials online has been extremely useful. If you're interested, check out our free webinar on how to save your marriage called, “5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage.” Register to watch the webinar to save your marriage.
Dr. Dana’s in the Marriage System is a great alternative to face-to-face marriage counseling and in fact, we’re really seeing that in most cases, watching the online videos in the privacy of your own home and completing the exercises is actually better than most face-to-face therapy.
So if you are searching for a way to save your marriage, and you’re genuinely ready to take the next step, signup to get Dr. Dana’s “Save Your Marriage System” Videos.
Dr. Dana shares the seven steps to recover from an affair in our webinar, “5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage.” If you’re wondering if your marriage is over because an affair, let me just say that the answer is: Absolutely Not! A marriage can be saved after an affair, if you both commit to forgive, get the relationship skills you need, and commit to work together on the marriage. In fact, the marriage can not only be saved, it can be made even stronger and happier than ever before! Watch the webinar to start the healing today.
In our videos, we tell you quite bluntly – don’t fight. Obviously there is more to it than this - you need to figure out ways of communicating that actually work and fighting is not one of them. The Stop Divorce System goes into considerable detail on better ways in which you can communicate with each other. But to briefly answer this question,let me offer some information that at the very least should help you and your partner understand what is happening when you do fight with each other.
Here it is: Anger is always a secondary emotion for fear or pain. When someone is angry, they are hurt or scared - every time. So the next time the two of you start to fight, take a moment and ask yourself, “What am I really hurt about, or afraid of, here.” And even more importantly, take a moment and consider that your partner is also hurt or frightened about something - and that should matter to you. Before you attack, have a little compassion for each other.
StrongMarriageNow.com is compatible with most faiths, religions and walks of life. The Save Marriage System teaches principles that honor marriage: love, commitment, honesty, trust and connection. Dr. Dana teaches that we all have choices in how we think, act, and behave and she gives you the tools to make more effective choices. She also teaches that we can choose our attitude towards our life and our relationships. Dr. Dana is empowering and thought-provoking. We are not affiliated with any political organization.
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