Are you Dealing with a Partner who's “Checked Out?”
Find out How to Get Your Spouse Committed to Working on The Relationship and Save Your Marriage Today!
Do you want to:
- Get your Spouse Checked Back In to Your Marriage
- Stop the Pain and End your Hurt Feelings
- Stop feeling Stuck and Move forward
- Avoid Common Mistakes that Can Threaten Your Marriage
- Get the Help you Need without Seeing a Couples Counselor
- Stop your Divorce and Fall in Love again
- Have the Fulfilling, Loving, Passionate Relationship you Desire
Hi, I’m Dr. Dana Fillmore. I’m a Clinical Psychologist and I’ve been helping couples and families for over 15 years. One of the things I specialize in is helping the really tough cases. People come to see me when they can’t think of anything else to do to help their marriage.
Now, if you’re reading this, you may be in that place. It’s likely you feel that your partner has pretty much “checked out” of your marriage and is unwilling to work on it. Does one of the following describe your situation?
- Maybe you’re a “happily” married couple going about your daily lives, but you never really interact as a man and a woman and something is missing and has been for awhile now.
- Maybe there’s a general state of apathy on one or both partners parts - in other words, “I’m not really “in love” with you anymore, but I’m not going anywhere either.”
- Maybe you’re engaged in a cold war - where there’s not constant fighting exactly, but underlying resentments are leading to withdrawal and avoidance.
- Maybe you’re the couple who constantly promises to change, but no action is ever taken to make things better.
- Maybe you’re the couple who is constantly fighting and the hurt and resentment has taken its toll on both partners and/or the rest of the family.
- Maybe one of you has become interested in or even involved with someone else.
- Or, worst of all, maybe someone has already moved out or even filed for divorce.
- Uncooperative partner
- Spouse who won’t listen
- Pain over past or ongoing hurts
- Lack of affection and appreciation
- Feeling disconnected
- Underlying resentment
- Poor communication
- Constant fighting
- Anger issues
- Loneliness
- Threat of divorce
- Online Video #1: How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In ($249 Value)
- The secret of couples who are happily married... you can be that way too!
- Why your marriage is the way it is and how to easily change it for the better and make it last
- 5 Steps to get your spouse to hear Dr. Dana's advice and checked back into your marriage
- Online Video #2: How To Make The Best Decision For You (designed to get your spouse to commit to working on the marriage again) ($449 Value) You'll discover:
- That Being happily married again is possible and Dr. Dana will tell you how
- What commitment means to you and how it can change your life
- Little known facts you NEED to know about divorce and what could happen to your life and your kids
- Steps you can take to get your marriage back on track and believe it or not, it won't be that hard
- How you can get the help you need to have the life you truly want
- Guide: 5 Steps to Get Your Partner Checked Back In ($29 value)
- Transcript to Video #1: How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In ($49 value)
- Transcript of Video #2: How to Make the Best Decision for Your Marriage ($49 value)
- How to approach your checked out partner to help get them checked back in
- The 5 steps to kindly ask them to listen to Dr. Dana’s advice
- Why your spouse might have checked out in the first place
- How to connect again
- How to rebuild your marriage
These are all incredibly difficult and painful situations and I applaud you for facing the problem, reaching out, and taking action to make a change.
Try our Special 2-part Video Package:
How to Get Your "Checked Out" Partner Checked Back In To Your Marriage
You'll be able to finally solve these issues:
Are You Struggling With Any of These Problems in Your Marriage?
Our Program Can Help You and Your Spouse Start Working Together Again
There are two videos in this series. In the first video, Dr. Dana will explain the difference between couples who stay married and those who don’t. She’ll talk about the typical love-cycle within a marriage, and tell you how to get your spouse to watch the next two videos in the series. By the end of the video, you’ll have hope and some clear steps to get your spouse checked back in again.
The second video is specifically designed to help motivate the spouse who is checked out to work on the marriage. In this video, Dr. Dana talks about how being happily married is a learned skill. She is extremely blunt about the meaning of commitment and gives some very straightforward facts about the impact of divorce. She offers helpful advice on avoiding common mistakes that many couples make in their marriages. Dr. Dana also explains that there are clear easily “do-able” steps both you and your partner can take to get your marriage back on track. She lists the practical skills that lead to a happy marriage. And finally, she tells you where you can learn them and how to make them last.
Why am I so confident? I’ve helped hundreds of couples who were on the verge of divorce turn their marriages around. Here are just two stories of couples whose marriages were revitalized.
We were on the verge of separating, now we're back on track
"I am so happy we found the StrongMarriageNow System. Prior to this, we were fighting a lot and on the verge of separation. We've only gone through the first three weeks of the System but we already see a big difference. My husband, James, and I both think the program is great. It has definitely helped us out. I think the main thing which is so small but how you guys have us tell each other how awesome we are everyday. It seems silly, corny even but it feels nice waking up to a phone call or even a text stating how great we are. Especially James like most men like praise. James has been working two full time jobs so it is challenging spending alone time. We struggled with that exercise. Plus I don't really have many people to watch my daughter. But we try. We haven't been able to get 8 hours a week but we do make as much time as we can. When the kids are asleep we try to catch up before he goes to bed. The System is easy to follow. Dana is great at coming across like she is in the room with you. Like a real one-on-one session. We can't thank you enough for helping us! - James and Monique" — Maryland
We're boyfriend and girlfriend again!
“I felt stuck, at a dead end. Throughout our 17-year marriage, I had tried many times to get my husband to see a counselor but it was always a BIG NO. We weren’t going to get a divorce but I felt like our marriage could be a lot better. When I talked to him about the videos he was right away willing to sit down and watch them with me.
We’re now more of a couple rather than just parents. It’s like we’re boyfriend and girlfriend again. Thank you Dr. Fillmore and StrongMarriageNow for the opportunity to use your videos for my marriage..... love it!!!!!!” -- Gabriela and Rafael P, San Diego, CA
Those were just two examples of the many couples whose lives have been transformed.
Don’t Let Your Marriage Slip Away
Let me tell you one last common mistake people make when considering whether to check back into their marriage. Many people believe they should wait to even try to mend their marriage until they feel “in love” again. In other words, they’re waiting to take any action to fix the marriage until they get the sensation that they want to fix the marriage and it’s the cart before the horse argument, isn’t it? Learning the skills I teach and working on your marriage leads to those loving feelings again.
Did you see the movie Field of Dreams? Marriage is a lot like that - “build it and it will come.” Have faith. Trust the process. Learning these skills revitalizes your marriage and, therefore, allows you to fall back in love with the person you’re already married to!
Can this really work if it’s not face-to-face?
You might not realize that couples counseling is very different than individual counseling. So much of it is teaching - teaching couples how to truly communicate, how to resolve conflict, how to learn and understand their partner's point of view, etc. In fact, it's when couple's therapists attempt to be mediators - attempt to judge who is right and who is wrong - that they get into trouble and can actually damage the relationship. In fact, 75% of couples who go to marriage counseling actually end up breaking up! You don't want to become dependent on your therapist and be in therapy forever. Your counselor won't be standing in the kitchen mediating your fight over who should be responsible for doing the dishes! You have to learn to do it yourselves and the our videos offer the perfect way for you to learn.
All in the Privacy of Your Own Home
You don’t need to air out your issues in front of a stranger. You can watch the videos in the privacy of your own home. All you need is a computer. Are you willing to invest in your marriage?
Dr. Dana Fillmore Has a Proven Track Record
Unlike most of the people offering online marriage advice, I have Masters and Doctorate Degrees in Psychology and have been actually saving marriages for over 15 years. In fact,
Three out of four couples who have followed my advice report that they want to stay together, not just that they will stay together but that they WANT to stay together.
The typical success rate for counselors across the nation is only one in four. All the concepts in the StrongMarriageNow Video Courses are based on years of scientific research and my experience.
On a personal note, I’ve been married for over 15 years and am a working mother with two kids. I know how hard it is to balance everything in life. We have struggled over the years with the very same issues that effect most couples. Earlier in our marriage, we had the typical fights over money, careers, and division of household responsibilities, just to name a few. There were certainly times when we felt distant and disconnected. But, we knew we wanted an exceptional marriage so we regularly applied the very skills I teach in this System, and still do to this day. I can honestly say this has made all the difference.
Imagine Your Future If You Take Action Right Now!
Okay, now imagine how life will be in a few weeks...if you handle your painful marriage issues right now. How will a happier marriage impact your life? Will you have more confident, successful children? Will you live longer and be healthier? Will you have the energy and support to pursue your dreams? Will you be a fun person to be around at home? At work? Will you avoid the thousands of dollars it costs to divorce?
How to Get Your Spouse Checked Back InThis program is specifically designed to motivate your spouse to check back in. Dr. Dana shares essential information you both need to know to commit to working together on your marriage, solving your issues and enable you to build the marriage you really want. The program is the only ONLINE VIDEO solution where you can get a world class therapist to come to you immediately on your computer in the privacy of your own home. The program includes:
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Okay, You Want the System, But You Feel Like You Can't Afford It, Right?
How much would it be worth it to you to save your marriage? How would you feel to living a loving, connected life with your spouse again? Imagine how relieved and comforted you would be to be getting your marriage back on track again. Would you be able to sleep soundly without worrying? Would your kids be happier? Consider those factors when making your decision about how to save your marriage.
.P.S. Dr. Dana can really help you. Do you want to stop feeling stuck and move forward again? Do want clear steps you can take to reconnect with your partner? Want to feel like you and your spouse are building your life together again rather than drifting further and further apart? The 2-part Video Package: How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In To Your Marriage, an innovative alternative to traditional counseling, will help get you there. Dr. Dana will teach you:
P.P.S. Imagine what your life will be in a few days or even a year, if you TAKE ACTION and invest in your marriage today! Will you be able to sleep well again? Will you feel more hopeful about your future? Will you feel more at peace? DON”T WAIT! Get started with our Special 2-part Video Package TODAY!
