Couples Counseling by Dr.Dana
Discover How to Get Your Partner Checked Back In
Feeling stuck? Frustrated that your partner won't work on your marriage? Click on the button below to discover how to motivate your spouse to commit to your marriage.
Just CLICK ON THE LINK BELOW that best describes your most important issue and you'll get immediate FREE Couples Therapy from Dr. Dana:
- Recovering from an Affair
- Endless Fighting
- One or both of us can’t forgive and get over the past
- We've Grown Apart
- Poor Communication
- Unsatisfying Sex Life
Why Is It So Hard to Get My
Partner To Go to Couples Counseling?
First let me say that I've heard from so many people that have a difficult time getting their partners to commit to going to marriage or couples counseling. They worry that if he/she won't go, that they are not committed to the relationship and they don’t care about their future.
Fortunately, in most cases, this is far from the truth. The fact is that many people are uncomfortable with going to couples (or pre-marital) counseling. This is due to many reasons.
Some people are more comfortable leaving things as they are rather than talking about and dealing with painful issues.
Many people are uncomfortable discussing their issues with someone they don't know.
Many couples counselors are women and their approach to couples therapy is to make the men “more like a woman.” They want him to think like a woman and communicate like a woman and that just doesn't work.
Going to a couples counselor can make some people feel like a failure and can feel threatening.
Some people are concerned about the time and how much couples counseling can cost.
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Couples Counseling - Does it Work?
Nevertheless, let me tell you why so many couples fail in traditional couples counseling - the sad truth is that not all therapists are created equal – Now, I recognize that might sound strange coming from me, but let me explain what I mean: As I’ve already mentioned, couples should not go to a therapist that isn’t qualified to do couples therapy.
Many people, (and therapists for that matter), don't realize that counseling for couples is very different from individual counseling. There is such a thing as couples counseling techniques - so much of it is teaching - teaching couples how to truly communicate, how to resolve conflict, how to learn and understand their partner's point of view, etc.
In fact, it's when couples’ therapists attempt to be mediators in the room - attempt to judge who is right and who is wrong - that they get into trouble and can actually damage the relationship even further, (the truth is 3 out of 4 couples who go to couples counseling actually end up breaking up!)
Additionally, you don't want the couple to become dependent on the therapist. A good therapist doesn't want their clients to be in therapy forever! And after they’ve stopped coming to see the therapist, the therapist is not going to be standing in the kitchen mediating their fight over who should be responsible for feeding the dog! They have to learn to do it themselves and here’s where, in my opinion, the StrongMarriageNow System is the perfect medium to teach them.
The StrongMarriageNow System is a great alternative to face-to-face counseling and therapy for couples because Dr. Dana teaches Marriage Success Skills that she would normally cover in 6 months of once a week therapy sessions.
"Three out of four couples who learn and apply Dr. Dana's
Marriage Success Skills say they WANT to stay together"
In fact, we’re really seeing that in most cases, watching the online videos in the privacy of your own home and completing the exercises is actually better than most face-to-face couples counseling therapy. Fix Your Marriage With Dr. Dana’s Couples Counseling Videos.
You Can Be Happily Married Again
Being happily married has a lot more to do with knowing how to be happily married than it does with who you’re married to. If you find you’re in a situation where you’re feeling disconnected and unhappy, take heart, things can get better. There are six major skills that couples need to learn in order to have a strong and healthy marriage. These are:
Spending Time Together
Understanding Each Other
Resolving Conflict
Agreeing on Money Issues
Fairly Dividing Responsibilities
Having a Satisfying and Healthy Sex Life
Couples that are strong in these areas have the best possible chance at having a long-term happy marriage. If you feel like your marriage could use some work in one or more of these areas, take action and sign up for our email list today! It's counseling for couples made easy...
We are often asked if our System can really work if it’s not face-to-face? And the answer is, absolutely! In fact, as we’ve mentioned above, sometimes it works better! We’re really seeing that in most cases, watching the online videos our System provides in the privacy of your own home along with using our workbook and completing the exercises, is actually better than most face-to-face counseling. Again, this is because unlike traditional therapy, we are not mediating a truce between the two of you – instead we are offering information – teaching you the skills you need learn to make your relationship, your marriage, a happy, successful one.
Fix Your Marriage With Dr. Dana’s
Couples Counseling Videos
So if you are feeling as if your marriage needs work, if you are seriously considering couples counseling, before you go any further, first, TAKE ACTION, and Get Dr. Dana’s Couples Counseling Videos to Fix Your Marriage.
Common Questions & Answers
About Counseling and Improving Your Marriage
“How do we connect again as a couple.”
In the StrongMarriageNow System we talk in depth about what we call The Most Important Lesson. We point out that most married couples do not spend nearly enough time alone together. Most married couples spend as little as one hour a week alone together; the average couple with kids, sometimes none. The average couple having an affair can spend up to 15 hours alone per week. Isn’t that unreal? I recommend that couples spend at least 8 hours alone together every week.
“What about infidelity? Is a marriage over after an affair?”
We answer this question at length in our webinar, 5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage, but let me just say that the answer is: Absolutely Not! A marriage can be saved after an affair, if you both commit to forgive, get the relationship skills you need, and commit to work together on the marriage. In fact, the marriage can not only be saved, it can be made even stronger and happier than ever before!
“What about Christian Marriage Counseling?"
StrongMarriageNow.com is compatible with most faiths, religions and walks of life. The StrongMarriageNow System teaches principles that honor marriage: love, commitment, honesty, trust and connection. Dr. Dana teaches that we all have choices in how we think, act, and behave and she gives you the tools to make more effective choices. She also teaches that we can choose our attitude towards our life and our relationships. Dr. Dana is empowering and thought-provoking. We are not affiliated with any political organization.
Fix Your Marriage With Dr. Dana’s
Couples Counseling Videos
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"Three out of four couples who learn and apply Dr. Dana's
Marriage Success Skills say they WANT to stay together"
You'll hear real-life stories from people just like you who took action, applied Dr. Dana’s advice and turned their relationships around. You can follow in their footsteps, end the pain and have the marriage of your dreams! Get Dr. Dana’s Couples Counseling Videos to Fix Your Marriage!
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